A sex toy that can be enjoyed by anyone with an anus, regardless of genitalia, gender, or orientation.
A butt plug is a sex toy that goes in the anus. Butt plugs come in many shapes, sizes, and textures. They usually look like a cone – starting narrow and getting wider before narrowing again – but can also be long and ribbed. Some butt plugs vibrate or have a remote control function. They should also have a wide base to prevent the toy from going in too far.
Unlike many other sexual toys, such as dildos, a butt plug is meant to remain in place during sexual play.
Some people use butt plugs to prepare for anal sex. The tip of the plug stimulates nerve receptors in the anus, prostate, and vagina, which can also relax the anal muscles.
Anyone with an anus can use a butt plug
Preparing for anal sex
Butt plugs can help a person prepare for anal sex by allowing them to become used to the sensation of having an object inside their anus. Additionally, they can help stretch the anus to allow for easier penetration.
Without preparation, anal sex can be painful. It can also cause tearing of the anus or anal lining. This can make it easier for certain viruses and bacteria to enter the body.
A person should always try and relax before inserting anything into their anus. Feeling comfortable and relaxed will help the anal sphincter to loosen. A sphincter is a ring of muscle that can relax or tighten to open or close passages in the body.
To stimulate the prostate
The prostate is a gland that lies in front of the rectum. Some people who have prostates find it very pleasurable to experience prostate stimulation through their rectum.
Inserting a butt plug can put pressure on the prostate, which can lead to a pleasurable sensation. Some people may find that they can orgasm via prostate stimulation.
A person with a prostate may also enjoy having a butt plug in while they have penetrative sex or during masturbation. Experiencing prostate stimulation during these acts may add to a person’s pleasure.
To enlarge the size of the anus
A person can use butt plugs of varying sizes to help stretch their anus. This can be beneficial for a person who wants to try anal sex.
Over time, the anus will become used to the size of the butt plug. A person can then gradually increase the girth of the butt plug until they achieve the size they desire.
It is important for a person to increase the size of the butt plug slowly and gradually. Inserting butt plugs that are too big can cause pain and tearing.
The anus has a lot of nerve endings, and it is near both the male and female G-spots.
Small and flexible is the way to go if you’re new to butt play.
Here are some butt plugs that are perfect for new experiences:
- Anal dilator set: This 3-piece gradually sized silicone butt plug set will ease you into anal play with its comfortable tapered tip and firm yet flexible material. Measuring at 3in, 4in and 5 inches, this anal trainer set is designed to help backdoor beginners gently expand their boundaries of anal experience.
- Prism gem butt plug: Adorn your derriere with this Rainbow Prism Gem butt plug! The rainbow gem adds dazzling lustful energy to your booty, while the small size and satisfying weight qualify this brilliant butt plug as the main event for the night or as a mild warm up for those more experienced with anal play. Made with nickel free aluminum alloy for a super smooth, non porous, body safe experience! Compatible with water and silicone based lubes so you can use any kind of lubricant for a comfortable anal session. The satisfying weight and density are sure to please.
- I scream for ice cream butt plug: This one-of-a-kind butt plug has a unique ice cream cone style shape with thrilling texture and indulgent girth for extra fun play. The silicone probe gradually increases gently in girth to let you indulge in fulfilling playtime with a plump 1.75 inch diameter and rippling surface. While you indulge in knee-shaking sensations, use the flanged base for steamy stimulation, effortless insertion and gentle removal. The playful suction cup base lets you get extra cheeky by mounting to a flat surface for hands-free stimulation. The flexible probe is made from a body safe silicone with a groovy tie-dye design. The body safe material is unscented and phthalate free to keep your most sensitive spots happy and healthy.
- Wavy baby butt plug: Made of silky smooth silicone, this butt plug is developed with an ingenious design for maximum anal stimulation that hits all the right spots. Ride the wave by using the handy suction cup base for some hands free fun. With a tapered tip, this butt plug is easily and comfortably inserted for a massive wave of pleasure. This butt plug has an incredible insertable length of 4.25" and a girthy diameter of 1.34" that will rock your boat and leave you breathless. Waterproof and hypoallergenic, use only water based lube.
- Bubble butt anal toy: This glass butt plug is the perfect addition to your toy collection. With an insertable length of 5 inches and a bubbly shape, this toy is great for use in partnered play or solo. Equipped with an O-ring handle, this toy is easily inserted for perfectly controlled play. Compatible with all lube types.
Are butt plugs safe?
- Using lots of lube. Lube isn’t optional when it comes to butt play. Not having enough can lead to irritation and tears. Read more about lubrication
- Proper handling. Washing and disinfecting any sex toy before and after use is a must. Proper care and handling of sex toys can reduce any risks.
- Your health. It’s a good idea to hold off on using butt toys if you have hemorrhoids, anal fissures or a prostate condition. Check with a doctor or other healthcare provider first.
Keep it consensual
Just as with any sexual activity, using a butt plug requires consent and communication. You might feel some discomfort the first time you try anal play, but if it hurts a lot or something doesn’t feel right, you should slow down or stop. If you’re using a butt plug with a partner, let the other person know when things feel good, and when they don’t.
If you’re not interested in trying a butt plug, or if you’ve tried one and didn’t like it, you shouldn’t be pressured into using one. Just because someone has consented to using a butt plug, it doesn’t mean they’re also consenting to anal sex. Ongoing consent and communication are important when it comes to ensuring that everyone feels safe and empowered during every step of sexual activities.
How to clean a butt plug
You can hand-wash butt plugs made from nonporous materials with antibacterial soap and warm water. Stainless steel and silicone toys can also be boiled in hot water for up to 10 minutes. If your butt plug has a vibrating function, avoid dunking it in water. You can use a cloth to clean it instead.
You can also wash porous toys with soap and warm water, but they’re much harder to clean, since they hold onto bacteria. Always follow the manufacturer’s instructions on how best to clean your toy.
After washing, a person can dry their butt plug using a clean paper towel or allow it to air dry. They can then place it into a clean container, such as a the collection cotton toy bag.
A person should clean the butt plug again before the next use. This helps to ensure there are no lingering bacteria.
Use lube
Lubricant can make the difference between a good experience and a mind blowing one. Lube minimizes friction that feels excessive, irritating, and chafing, and maximizes friction that feels smooth, grippy, and arousing.
Butt Plug Aftercare
When you’re ready to remove your butt plug, relax and gently pull it out. If it feels stuck, don’t panic – this will cause your muscles to tense up, making it even more difficult to remove. Instead, apply some lubricant around the plug and gently push as if you were having a bowel movement. Try not to push too hard, though, or you could be more likely to get hemorrhoids.
Because anal tissue is thin, it bleeds more easily than other parts of your body. If you notice a small amount of blood when you remove your butt plug, or when you wipe, don’t worry. Most small, internal tears will heal on their own. If you feel any discomfort, a warm bath can help speed up the healing process.
